How to choose a Headphones and earphones for sportsmen

With or without wire

Now that you know everything about the issues of comfort and headphones maintenance in part 1, the question arises whether to opt for a model with or without wire.

Bluetooth Headphone

Advantage of Bluetooth headphones, you do not risk getting entangled in the wires or even being hampered by a cable during the effort. The connection is generally very stable and the comfort of use is real. On the other side of the coin, you’ll have one more device to recharge before you run. In case of a discharged battery, you can make a cross on the music. If you’re the head-up, we recommend PowerBeats 2 Wireless that take advantage of the fast charging technology. Plug in for 15 minutes to enjoy one hour of use. Read More

Brentwood Intrigue 7” Mattress Reviews

Every mattress is different and so are the people who sleep on them. The two biggest sellers in today’s market are memory foam and coil mattresses, which are both very different. The Brentwood Intrigue 7 inch mattress is an inner spring mattress that uses 13.5 gauge tempered steel coils in order to give you the added support and comfort that you look for without sacrificing quality. Read More

Turning Bad Luck into Something Great

Experience has taught me that many times something we think of as bad luck or a negative situation can very often be turned around into a positive advantage. It all depends on how we look at the situation. We can make the choice to view a bad luck story as experience gained, or better yet, even turn it into a funny story. Good things can come from bad luck! Read More

4 Ways NOT to Have a Happy Marriage

4 Ways NOT to Have a Happy Marriage

Normally I try to share ideas and inspiration for a happier and better life through this blog.  How to achieve a successful balance in life, how to reach our goals, how to improve our lives. I’ve shared stories of fun ways to improve our relationships with our sons and daughters as teens and also as little kids.

But I have not addressed marriage before because mine was not successful. I have been on my own with my children for several years. (Their dad is involved in their lives, but they have always lived full time with me.) I have no basis on which to advise anyone on how to have a happy marriage!

I CAN tell you what I did wrong so I can help other women avoid my mistakes. By sharing how I did NOT have a happy marriage, I hope I can contribute to someone else having a better one!     1.      Accepting things you won’t want to live with for the rest of your life.

Bad behaviors will not improve after marriage. Never set the precedent of permitting them in the first place! From even before the first day of marriage, back when we were dating, I allowed my husband to behave rudely to me (because other times he could be so sweet), and I allowed him to be lazy around the house while I did the work and resented him for it.

I would think those behaviors were unacceptable if I saw them in a friend or sister’s relationship. Yet I put up with them in mine. I wished they would change, therefore, I kept thinking (hoping) they would someday get better.

Never put up with a man speaking to you rudely or treating you rudely. Never let it slide or ignore it. Any bad behavior will get worse after marriage, not better!     2.       Expecting your husband to pick up on your hints.

Tell him plainly what you want to communicate. Saying you wish you had some help or telling him how nice it would be if you could get a day off from cooking dinner or from getting up with the baby are just wastes of your breath. You must spell out exactly what you need your husband to do. If necessary, you must insist or demand it. He will not do what you’d like him to because you hint around it. You can’t blame him for not cooperating if you don’t make your wishes clear to him!

3.      Losing yourself and becoming someone else to please him.

I laugh too loudly. My husband hated that, so out of respect for his feelings, I tried to tone it down. But then he hated it when I told stories about funny things that happened to us. Soon he pretty much hated it if I spoke up in public at all! I disliked conflict and loved peace, and I certainly didn’t want to raise my kids in a stressful home, so I became what I thought my husband wanted. I was unaware of it happening at the time, but I lost my own personality along the way. I buried my playfulness and joyful side.

One day back when my teenage son was just a little toddler and my husband was out of town, my son and I were enjoying some playtime outside. Suddenly I realized that I felt happy when my husband was gone. I hadn’t felt free to feel happy in a long time. I started wondering how long it had been since my little boy had seen me laugh, and I realized I never laughed when my husband was around anymore. I wasn’t me anymore.

It happened so gradually I didn’t know it was happening. But I don’t blame the ex for this. I am responsible because I let it happen. I am responsible for my own happiness. Shame on me!

I resolved to make positive changes for all our sakes. Unfortunately, it didn’t have any effect on the marriage, but it was vital to the kids and me, our happiness, and our futures.     4.      Not listening to your friends and family.

Your friends and your family know the real you. They love you very much and want you to be happy. If they are in agreement that the love of your life is not the best match for you, at least be open tolistening to their concerns and think over their advice before deciding to marry.The End of a Marriage

I did everything wrong. I thought I was keeping my husband happy, but I made poor choices that made me unhappy. I realized the consequences of my bad decisions much too late.

Ultimately there were deeper issues in the marriage. Excuse my evasive wording, but I’ll just say that another person was involved. When I learned about that more serious and critical problem, I was stunned to realize by that point I was more relieved than hurt. It gave me a way out! It was more like being rescued than feeling devastated. Life circumstances ended up prolonging the inevitable separation and divorce, but that’s another story.

Now that I’ve shared how NOT to have a happy marriage, would you please share your tips and advice for a GOOD and HAPPY one? Please leave a comment and share your lessons or secrets to a happy marriage. Or if you’re in my situation, you can still share lessons learned that might help other women out there!

 

9 Powerful Interview Tips to Help You Win Every Job Opportunity

9 Powerful Interview Tips to Help You Win Every Job Opportunity

 

A few weeks ago, I shared that I had landed a new job in this post: Wow! I’m the Boss!  In it, I wrote that I would share my best interview tips that have helped me in all my career moves.

Well, I did write a post with my interview tips to share, and I am flattered to have it published on Work Happy Now.  Here’s how it starts:

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Here’s an important point no one ever shares. You do not have to be the most qualified person applying for a job to get hired. You just have to be the person your interviewer likes for the job!Most managers hire for personality and passion, not your skill set.

You can always become better trained on the job. It comes with experience. But no manager wants to hire a person they don’t find likable. They’re looking for someone who will be pleasant to be around and will work well with their current team as a productive member.

In the past six years, I have tripled my income by moving up and moving on to better opportunities. I’ve used these practices to ace all my job interviews, including the latest one that landed me my present, new general manager’s position.

I am happy to share my tips with you that always get me the job.1) My best “secret” is: Pretend like your interviewer is your own real friend!

Pretend to yourself that the interviewer is a friend you’re meeting for a casual chat, like getting together over coffee or lunch. Please read the rest of this article by clicking Work Happy Now. I hope it proves to be helpful for you or someone you know.

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